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My name is Samantha Carr and I'm a 22 year
old white female in a long-term relationship with a Japanese
American male. Many people are aware that it's not every day
you see a white female with an Asian male, but rather the
other way around. I'm at a loss for an explanation to such a
phenomenon, but in my opinion, it's a shame that it's not
more common than it is. Whether it's a cultural or
sociological reason, or just plain prejudice or reluctance
on the part of the white female population, I must say
they're missing out on a very exciting and fulfilling
relationship.
This isn't the first time I've been in a relationship with
an Asian American man. In fact, it isn't the second or
third, but I have a preference for them. Aside from the
physical attractiveness (and they are indeed VERY
attractive), they have qualities about them that I find a
lot of Western guys are lacking. The first is the modesty
they have about themselves. Even though it can manifest as
shyness, it puts the ball in my field and forces me to make
the first move which is something of a challenge that lures
me. It builds attraction, especially if I know I'm close to
the catch. The "thrill of the chase", if you will.
But that's just the beginning of the getting-to-know-you
stage. Once I do catch them and am in a relationship with
them, it never gets dull. As a general rule, or at least
what I feel is, Asian American men are more emotionally
invested into their relationships than their Western
counterparts, at least in my experience. They're loving,
affectionate, and willing to spend time and be committed to
their partners. They also are the best and most considerate
lovers. A lot of Western guys start feeling you up and say
"Yea, lets do it," but that's not the case with Asian
American men. They seem to really value their partners, sex,
and all the activities surrounding it. They're happy to be
intimate and close with their partners and they hold sex as
a sacred act like it should be. I personally have trouble
keeping my hands to myself with my boyfriend because I just
enjoy being in his presence and being intimate with him. He
is by far, and I've gone out with a number of different guys
in my life, the best boyfriend I've had and I've never been
happier in a relationship than I am now.
Again, I can't really say whether it's cultural or whatever,
but I feel that Asian American guys make the best lovers and
I think every woman is missing out if they've never been
with one.
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